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Me, Kyra Hendrix, by the window with my daughter in my arms

What are we doing wrong?

Nothing. You just didn't have a plan yet.

Kyra Hendrix Gentle Sleep Coach®

It's my gift to you.

You stay with your little one.

Make your sleep plan
  • Free, and no call needed

Where does your plan start?

Two little books from my lessons. Free.

Choose a little book

Your baby was sleeping a nice long stretch, and now you’re suddenly called in every hour.

Get this little book

It’s 5 a.m., and your little one is wide awake. You’re still tired yourself.

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Free as an e-book. You open it right away.

We already know those tips.

No new tips. A plan for your little one.

With what's going on with your little one, what you do at bedtime, and what to do when it gets hard.

Me, leaning on Noor's sleep plan
Noor's sleep plan at 4 months, as you get it after the questions: the first evening, the routine and step 1 of 4

Will our little one have to cry?

Protest is part of it, because your little one is learning something new. You stay close and comfort. While your little one learns to fall asleep independently, you start by the bed and move a bit farther away every few nights.

You start by the bed and move away in small steps: by the bed, halfway, by the door, in the hallway, out of sight. If it gets hard for a moment, you take a step back.

  • If it gets hard for a while, you can take a step back.

    Sleep coaching isn't always a straight line up. What to do then is in your plan.

  • You choose the pace together.

    Even if one of you secretly enjoys the co-sleeping.

Before
“Going in, we were really scared it would be a whole month of hell.”
What helped most?
“That you could stay with your little one, and that if it wasn't going well for a bit, you were still allowed to take a small step back.”

From my one-on-one coaching · Translated from Dutch

I've been working on sleep since 2019. Even so, I got help with our oldest.

Me with a box from Calmzy, the sleep company for adults I co-founded

First with Calmzy, a sleep company for adults I co-founded. We helped tens of thousands of adults sleep better at night. Now I'm a Gentle Sleep Coach®, certified through Kim West, and I've already helped more than 100 families. I've seen it from two sides.

Read my whole story

I guide you every day, even when it gets hard.

After an intake, I write your plan myself. Then you're in touch with me every day, for a week or for as long as you need me.

From my one-on-one coaching · Translated from Dutch

Up early, at 5 in the morning
  1. Me: You're doing so well! Quick heads-up: night 2 can sometimes be a bit harder.

  2. A parent: Thanks for the encouraging words! And the warning haha! We'll give it our best again tomorrow morning 🙂💪🏻

Sick during the program
  1. Me: When little ones are sick, we mostly follow what they need.

  2. A parent: Thank you, so glad to hear this doesn't have to mean a step back 🥰

Keeping it up, after five weeks
  1. A parent: Just a quick note, I'm so grateful for your help Kyra! I'd lost the thread a long time ago. It really helps to keep it up like this and keep going.🙏

Reviews of me on Google

  • Maarten Overkamp

    ★★★★★ 6 months ago

    Kyra did a fantastic job helping us with our little boy (almost 2), who was routinely waking up far too early. Starting a sleep coaching program like this felt like a big step for us, but in the end we're very happy we took it. With her daily feedback, Kyra really gives you the confidence that her approach works if you stay consistent, and it did! We really recommend Kyra to anyone who has a difficult sleeper!

    Translated from Dutch

  • Yoram Elzas

    ★★★★★ a month ago

    We worked with Kyra from Sleepy Steps for a few weeks because our little one woke up every night and then couldn't get back to sleep.

    What struck us right away: Kyra really listened to our story and made a tailored plan from it. She checked in regularly on WhatsApp, never pushy, but genuinely involved, and we also had a few video calls with her.

    Her tips were practical and worked for us. Our little one sleeps well again now. Kyra, thank you so much, we warmly recommend you.

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  • Marloes

    ★★★★★ Edited 6 months ago

    So grateful for Kyra's help for our family. Without her support I couldn't have done the sleep training. It felt safe, tuned to our little boy's needs and to my feelings. Most important of all, it worked. Baby went from waking every 1.5 hours to 1 bottle a night. Falls asleep easily during the day, and family members and daycare can put baby to bed too. A night-and-day difference! Better for the baby, for me and for the people around me.

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Rather do it yourself? I'll show you how.

My lesson on the Sleep Lady Shuffle on a laptop, with three slides from that lesson
From my lesson on the Sleep Lady Shuffle

In my lessons, I show you on video how to do what your plan says, with a cheat sheet for every lesson.

Watch my lesson on sleep cycles for free

What does it cost?

Your plan is free. After that, it's your call.

With me by your side

I ask my own questions, write your little one's plan myself and guide you personally, every day. The whole Sleepy Steps Academy is included.

Unlimited
995
I stay with you until you can do it on your own, even if it takes longer or there's a setback.
One week
395
For one week, I guide you every day, with a plan I write myself for your little one.
Choose me by your side

Recommended

The Sleepy Steps Academy

My lessons for every age, from pregnancy to age 5, and your plan checks in every morning.

Pay once
197
Daily Feedback (39 on its own)
included
You save 220 compared with buying the three courses separately, which cost 139 each.

You get all three of my sleep courses:

  • A Calm Start From pregnancy to about 4 months
  • Falling Asleep on Their Own From about 4 to 18 months
  • Everyone in Their Own Bed From 18 months to 5 years

Teething, being sick, a vacation or the next phase: you'll know what to do. You never pay again.

Your little one's sleep plan

Free

About your own little one, right on your screen: what's going on, what to do by day and at night, and what comes next.

Make your sleep plan
  • Free, and no call needed

What parents ask me

Is this right for our little one?

Your plan takes into account the age, how your little one falls asleep and night feeds, including breastfeeding. It also checks whether it could be a phase. The approach and the pace follow my lessons and your answers.

What's the catch?

Your plan is free, with no call and no payment details, and it stays yours. There is an offer: The Sleepy Steps Academy, my lessons for every age, where I show you how to do it. And if you want me to write your plan myself and guide you every day, you can choose to have me by your side. That's up to you.

How long does it take?

Every little one is different. For some it takes a few nights, for others it takes weeks. With most approaches, your plan looks at a few nights together: if they weren't any harder, you go one step further.

Isn't it just a phase?

That's what everyone says. Your plan tells you what's going on with your little one, and whether it's likely to pass on its own.

My partner says: don't worry so much.

Send your plan as a PDF. That way your partner can read what's going on with your little one. For grandma or daycare, there's a sheet to print.

Me, walking through the woods with my family

“Yes, it really is, so valuable. We finally found some calm, and we got our evenings together back too”

From my one-on-one coaching · Translated from Dutch

Those evenings start with a plan.

Make your sleep plan
  • Free, and no call needed
Make your sleep plan

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